Living My Authentic Self – Day 6 of 30: Self-Love

This morning, while dropping the kids at school, I heard a song on the radio.

“Why am I always looking for a ride or die?
‘Cause mine’s the only heart I’m gonna have for life
After all the times I went and fucked it up
(All the times I went and f’d it up)
I wonder when I love me is enough (is enough)”

The song is Demi Lovato’s “I Love Me”. The song itself is profound in that it’s one of the few cases where a celebrity is reflecting on the inner self-critic – which we all have.

‘Cause I’m a black belt when I’m beating up on myself
But I’m an expert at giving love to somebody else

Photo by Zach Betten on Unsplash
Photo by Zach Betten on Unsplash

I’m my own worst critic
Talk a whole lot of sh’t
But I’m a ten out of ten
Even when I forget

In my research, I isolated a few key takeaways that show how to practice self-love:

Be kind to yourself by putting in place a self-care ritual/routine including below:

  • forgiving yourself for your mistakes, acknowledging the lesson from them, and moving on.
  • Understand that there’s no point in thinking much too much about things you have no control over
  • Find/refine your care/friendship/kindness-circle, and distance yourself emotionally from everyone who isnt in the arena with you.
  • Practice observing your emotions and understanding them as opposed to reacting to them.

Love,

Munaf

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